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CHAPTER 9
Isaiah 54 is the Lord's
Sonnet to Israel, but as with most Old Testament writings, there are
applications for God's modern Lady, the Church, and personal applications for
individual believers.Your Life-God’s Masterpiece
Isaiah 54:11
“Afflicted
city, lashed by storms and not comforted,
I will rebuild
you with stones of turquoise,
your foundations
with lapis lazuli.
Afflicted. Do you
ever feel like that word describes you? I sure did. Sexually abused as early as
age three, and on up till age 12. Then years of depression, social awkwardness,
poverty, self-harm, isolation, abusive boyfriends, teen pregnancy, and a lonely
marriage that ended in divorce. Somewhere in there I had become a Christian,
but my life didn’t change very much. Then I came across this scripture and in
that moment I felt that God really knew what my life had been like. Before
that, I thought of God as distant and unavailable. His strong arms crossed with
a stern look on His face, waiting for me to figure it out and finally get it
right. He could help me but He wasn’t willing. And I wasn’t able to help myself.
I would cry out and beg for His help, telling Him I loved Him. My intellectual theology
was correct. Consciously, I knew the Bible says He loves us unconditionally,
but below the surface, my emotional image of God was a combination of a
self-serving user and an absent abandoner. In the deepest recesses of my heart,
I believed my desperate pleas fell on deaf ears.
Please realize
that if anyone had asked me, I would never have said these things about my Lord
and Savior. I read my bible faithfully and believed in my intellect that God
was good, kind, caring, merciful, and loving. I am sure that in my spirit I also knew this
to be true. But where I lived day to day, the way I interacted with the world
around me, was based on a foundational belief hiding far below the surface,
that I was completely on my own to deal with my struggles, my needs, my
desires, my hopes, and my fears.
After I
discovered this verse, my attitude slowly began to change. I started to look
for God to show up in real ways in my life, and He did. Sadly, I was still too
immature to really apply this in very meaningful ways. Once again I sought
comfort in a marriage that was doomed from the start. It took me ten years to
finally escape and another two years to finally nail the whole thing to the
cross and let it go.
Now, my
foundation is laid bare and He can actually do what needs to be done. Jesus
said in Matthew 7:24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts
them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” Because
of my faulty foundation, my house was not built upon the Rock of Jesus Christ,
but on my own fears and doubts stemming from the belief that I was alone and
unloved. It was not enough to read the scripture, underline the scripture,
memorize the scripture, and post the scripture on the wall. I had to stop
acting like an orphan, sneaking under the table in hopes of catching a few
crumbs. It was time to walk in and take my seat next to Jesus at my Father’s table.
I no longer look
for my worth and value in what I own, in where I work, in who likes me or loves
me, in marriages or relationships, or in any other earthly thing. I have worth
and value because He says so. Jesus suffered and died so He could have fellowship
with me. No longer frantically searching, I rest in that.
Before this
revelation, because of my history of poverty, I was always looking for a higher
paying job. When I got a higher paying job, I wasn’t happy, so I went back to
school. Then, I had to start over in a new career and I had a lower paying job
again. Now, I am in the job that God gave me. It is not perfect, and it doesn’t
pay that much, but it's not my end all. Jesus is. I’ll stay until He tells me otherwise because I have learned to be
content knowing He is the One taking care of me.
I used to comfort
myself about all my perceived flaws and imperfections by criticizing and
judging others. We can always find someone who is worse than we are in each
area we feel insecure about. There is always someone with worse kids, worse hair,
a worse car, a worse addiction, a worse potty mouth, a smaller house, more
weeds, a fatter stomach or a bigger nose, and on and on. When we start with the
foundation that God loves us and really believe it, we can accept ourselves and
love others. When we feel safe and accepted, we are able to admit our faults
and ask for help to overcome them. When I was hiding my insecurities behind a
wall of judgment, I couldn’t confess or repent. I was too busy hiding and
criticizing. Now that I am free from that, I not only can be free from
besetting sins, I can help others get free too.
We have to let
God touch us deeply if we really want to be free. We have to give Him access to
our foundation. We cannot just modify our outward behavior and call it good. We
can read our Bibles for an hour every day, pray for an hour every day, go to
church every time the doors are open, follow all the rules, don't drink, cuss,
smoke, or chew, or go around with those that do, and say we are doing fine,
better than most. But I have seen people carry on this way, using it as a wall
to keep God at arm’s length. “I’m fine, see? I’m good. I don’t need God to go
poking around my foundation.”
Of course, they
don’t actually say this out loud. But when it’s time for group discussion and
prayer, someone in the group inevitably applies the personal growth topics to
someone else, to public schools, the government, homeless people, Hollywood,
public figures, politics, or the man in the moon. Anything to avoid being
transparent and vulnerable. Once that first person pipes up with an off the
topic topic, everyone else in the group heaves a collective sigh of relief and joins
the bandwagon, off the hook once again. If we want to grow in love and grace, we have to move past the superficial. We have to take risks.
Our old, faulty
beliefs were born out of a need to protect us from something, whether real or perceived.
Now that we are God’s children, we have Him to protect us, so we can let go of
the old and embrace the new. But it is scary, so lots of people just muddle
through their Christian life without victory because the first step feels like
it is off the edge of a cliff and we don’t know if God will really catch us. This is the threshold to the victorious, abundant life Jesus came to give us. (John 10:10)
It truly is time
to allow God to rebuild that old foundation (Isaiah 58:12). What is your foundation made of?
Anger? Unbelief? Insecurity? Doubt? Self-confidence? Self-righteousness?
Woundedness? Fear? Self-importance?
Are you ready to allow God to dismantle the old foundation and replace those old stones with precious gems?
Are you ready to allow God to dismantle the old foundation and replace those old stones with precious gems?
“Oh, afflicted
city, lashed by storms and not comforted,
I will build you with stones of turquoise, your foundations with sapphires.”
I will build you with stones of turquoise, your foundations with sapphires.”
Sapphires, or
lapis lazuli, are a reference to the heavens, as well as strength. In the
Middle East, the use of turquoise in buildings is significant. It was used to
signify Heaven, and was a symbol for victory. Turquoise was only used for
important buildings. I had to learn to
accept that I was important to God. Now,
I am writing this book so that you too can know you are important to God. He
said He will personally take on the responsibility to rebuild you and me. He will not leave the job to an apprentice or
even a journeyman carpenter. No. The General Contractor will show up in person
to see that this job is done right. So,
what is our part? We must show up daily to allow our Heavenly Father to dote
over us. Remember, Jesus said in Matthew
11:30 that His yoke is easy and His burden is light.
If we want to
replace those old bricks, we have to choose to meditate on those scriptures
that will counteract the beliefs that keep us stuck. I am a huge fan of reading the Bible from
cover to cover in order to stay balanced.
A one-year Bible can make it easy to do that, or you can use a two-year
or three-year plan. But in order to counteract those deeply held foundational
beliefs that are tripping up our lives, we need to study, meditate, memorize,
and confess specific scriptures that tell us the truth about who God is and who
we are to Him. Those scriptures will
jump out at you during your daily reading. Underline them, write them down, and
memorize them. As you uncover those
faulty beliefs, the Holy Spirit will lead you to the right scriptures for you.
It will also help if you personalize them.
For example, if
you feel alone and rejected, abandoned and forgotten, personalize this
scripture:
“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast
and have no compassion on the
child she has borne?
Though she may forget,
I will not forget you!
See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands;
your walls are ever before me.
You might say it something like this:
No matter who else ignores me or forgets about me, the Most High God,
Maker of the Universe, is thinking about me all the time, non-stop; He is so in
love with me that He has put my name on the palm of his hand. Like a soldier on
the wall he is standing guard over me day and night. I must be pretty special and
mighty important to Him!
Or this:
___(Your Name Here)__,This is the Most High God, Maker of the
Universe. I am here to tell you that no matter who else ignores you or forgets
about you, I am thinking about you all the time, non-stop; and I am so in love
with you that I have put your name on the palm of My hand. Like a soldier on a
wall I am standing guard over you day and night. You are that special and that
important to Me!
Lord, You are the Most High God, Maker of the Universe. No matter who
else ignores me or forgets about me, You are telling me that You are thinking
about me all the time, non-stop; that you are so in love with me that you have
put my name on the palm of Your hand. Like a soldier on a wall you are standing
guard over me day and night. I must be pretty special to you and mighty important
to you!
Our God is a personal God, and if we want His word to change our lives,
we have to apply it in personal ways. How might your life be different if you
are constantly aware that God is bending over you, noticing you, paying close
attention to you, protecting you, and looking for ways to bless you?
Yes, we do experience trouble in this life, heartbreaking trouble at
times. As long as the world exists in its present form we will have painful
trials. But what will you believe about this? What will your foundation be?
Will you believe that you are alone, abandoned by God, smitten and afflicted by
God? Or will you allow the Cross of Christ to be your foundation, remembering
that He was bruised for our iniquities, that 100% of our punishment for sins
was placed upon Him, so that he purchased for us eternal peace and total
healing? (Isaiah 53:4-5, NIV)
Believing in His tender care gives us the courage to let go of old habits
and self-protective mechanisms such as criticism, defensiveness, avoidance, pretending,
distrust, hiding our true selves, showing off, putting ourselves down, putting
others down, using and abusing others, and allowing others to use and abuse us.
Even when painful trials come our way, we have an all-powerful God who is
willing and able to comfort, heal, and restore us.
Questions for Reflection
or Group Discussion
What are some deeply held
beliefs that have governed your life and decisions that are not in agreement
with God’s word? (Examples: I’m alone. I’m not good enough. I don’t deserve it.
If I don’t do it, it won’t get done. God won’t help me because I’ve made too
many mistakes or done too many wrong things. Other people owe me. I’m nothing
without a spouse or children. I’m nothing without a job, money, house, car,
possessions, etc. I’m destined to be poor, alone, sick, depressed, anxious, in
trouble, homeless, etc. Or perhaps you have believed that you are self-reliant,
self-righteous, and self-important.)
How have these beliefs influenced
your life, health, relationships, finances, emotions, thoughts, and decisions?
(Examples: Avoiding relationships with healthy, successful people and instead
choosing people who will abuse and take advantage of you or spend your time
criticizing and gossiping about others, buying things on credit to make
yourself feel better, staying up all night and sleeping all day, watching junk TV
and eating junk foods, thinking negative thoughts about yourself, your
situation, and your future. Or you might be arrogant, abusive, and selfish in
your thoughts, finances, and relationships.)
What unhealthy or unhelpful
decisions have you made as a result of these beliefs?
Are your willing to let God
replace these crumbling foundational belief systems with Lapis Lazuli, the
truth of His word?
Prayer
Dear Lord,
I ask that you will fill me
with the knowledge of Your will, with all spiritual wisdom and understanding,
so that I may live a life worthy of You and please You in every way, growing in
knowledge and strengthened in Your power, firmly established in the
foundational truth of Your word and the redemption of Christ which has
purchased for me a secure place in your eternal family. Help me to fully rely
on these foundational truths with complete confidence so that I can move
forward in the victorious life You have designed specifically for me.
Meditation
Sit in a
comfortable place with no distractions. Shift your body so it is well
supported. Gently close your eyes and focus on your breath, breathing in slowly
and deeply and allowing your muscles to relax as you exhale slowly and fully.
Take a few more deep breaths as you become more relaxed and focused.
Imagine you are inside a
house, facing a door that leads to the basement. Your Friend, your Redeemer
invites you to open the door and walk with Him down the stairs into the
basement. Notice whether He is in front of you or behind you as you go down the
stairs together. At the bottom of the stairs, look around. This is your
foundation. What do you see? What is your foundation made of? You might see
some bricks or stones that represent things like Truth, Stability, Redemption,
and Peace. You might also see some weak stones or bricks, or crumbling cement,
representing Fear, Doubt, Regret, Inferiority, Guilt, or Shame. Notice that
piled in the center of the room are some beautiful blue stones, flawless in
strength, beauty, color, and shape. They represent the absolute Purity of God’s
love for you and Jesus’ Righteousness imputed to you. Watch as your Redeemer
begins to replace sections of the walls and floor of this room, your
foundation, with the perfect blue stones. Some of those old stones may be
difficult to remove. Will you trust Jesus to replace every one eventually? You
might need to come back to this many times as Jesus rebuilds your life
foundation and restructures your deeply held beliefs.
And now, take a
couple of deep breaths, wriggle your hands and feet, let out a big, big, sigh,
and when you are ready you can open your eyes.
Action
Steps
As you go about
your day, try to be aware of what you are thinking about yourself, about your situation,
about God, and about the future. Ask yourself if your thoughts are in line with
biblical truth.
“For no one can
lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.” (I
Corinthians 3:11 NIV)
Start a journal
of promises. Every time you come across a promise from God in scripture or
while listening to a sermon or even in a song, write it in your journal. Ask
God to show you how this promise applies to your life.
When you notice a
faulty belief system, take time to explore where that belief came from and
compare it to what God’s word says. Picture Jesus replacing that wrong belief
with sapphires from His word.
If you believe
you are inferior or less valuable, it will lead to jealousy, competitiveness,
and contempt for others. Meditate on scriptures that remind you of God’s love
for you, how He cares for you, and how much He values you. (Matthew 10:29-31;
Isaiah 49:15-16; Matthew 12:11-12; Ephesians 3:17-19; 1 Peter 5:7)
If you find
yourself expecting the worst all the time, meditate on scriptures that remind
you of how God delights to do you good. (Psalm 35:27; Matthew 6:25-32; Luke
11:9-13)
If you feel
alone, think of all the scriptures in which God promises to never leave you.
(Hebrews 13:5; Matthew 28:20)
Allow the
steadfast love of God in Jesus Christ, His sacrifice for you, His provision for
you, His devotion to you, to become the foundational belief from which all your
life’s decisions are made, whether big or small.
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